Monday, June 13, 2005

Husband FOR SALE!!!

Today is a bad day :( ...I try and stay positive most the time even through trails ,but today I am having a hard time doing that .I am not sure if I will get to post a happier post later or not ..Guppy has to come home and discuss some things with me ..Apparently he has jacked up some finances ..GRRRRRRRRRR!!!! Have I ever mentioned that he is a wonderful man but very very shitty with money ?I am thinking that after tonight ..I will be in charge of all the money in this household ..What do you do when your husband seems to be perfect for you besides the fact that he sucks with money? I am lost here..All I know is I can not keep having him mess with our finances like he does ..He keeps it from me too ...I mean I am his wife ..I should be the ONE person he can confide in about anything right ? I always thought so, but apparently I am badly mistaken ...Sorry I made this into a bitch fest but I am severely frustrated and needed an outlet ...Anyway ...I am off to wait for him to arrive home and tell me how bad the damage is ..Ya'll keep us in your thoughts and prayers ...

10 comments:

  1. Awww..I'm sorry. I think it's time for you to take control!!

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  2. I will keep you in my thoughts...I hope everything work out for you.

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  3. You do just what you're doing. You take control, and good luck with that, you both are in my prayers and thought! :-)

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  4. you'll be in my prayers chicka!

    money... oooh, sensitive topic. i've always managed the money 'coz we decided that i was the cheapskate.;) but, we talk budgeting together... my hubby tells me how much he needs and i work it in our budget. if it's not essential, he knows better than to ask me money for it.

    and yes, he's the sole earner in this family. LOL! he just acknowledges that i handle the money better.

    p.s. i also have the excel file for monthly budgeting... give a holler if you need it.

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  5. hey girl!

    send me an email so i can send you the file!;)

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  6. Bless your heart! I've been there way TOO MANY TIMES!! Just hang in there...it will smooth out..somehow it always does with us. Just remember how much you love him!!

    Love ya, girl!

    ang

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  7. We have money issues too, sometimes it's me, and sometimes it's him. And from all your responses I've read above me, it sounds like the money issue is something that everyone goes through. It's a touchy subject.

    One thing I know for sure, I'd never offer my husband for sale, or bash him on my blog .... no matter what. JMO.

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  8. I know not, but when you figure it out will you let me know? I'm in the same predicament!

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  9. Wow, sorry honey! I am in charge over here and most of the time I wish I wasn't. I will keep my fingers & toes crossed for you two. *hugs*

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  10. My response is a little late in the game, but Dave & I don't spend more than $25-$30 on a particular item before discussing it with each other first, not after. It used to be $50, but now that we are down to 1 income with an extra mouth to feed, it's a lower amount. Oh, and we BOTH have to agree or the item either doesn't get purchased or is tabled, for later discussion. Hope this helps. M :-)

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